How big is your bucket?
By modefor, Apr 24 2020 10:11AM
Do you even know?
I know exactly how big my bucket is and I pay special attention to it!
Have you ever thought about the importance of the size of your bucket compared to the size of what goes into it?
OK, smutty people, heads out of gutter now please! I’m not talking about that bucket…
… I’m talking about your stress bucket!
Yes, stress bucket is a thing thanks to the clever science-minded people Professor Alison Brabban & Dr. Douglas Turkington, who in 2002 said that the level of vulnerability a person carries is represented by a bucket into which every day stresses flow (check below for the Stress bucket visual!).
People with higher levels of vulnerability (based on life experiences, pressures of work, finance, family, trauma, grief, health, socio-economic factors and more) are more likely to develop mental health issues when stress levels rise. Conversely, those with lower vulnerability levels can withstand a higher level of stress. (check below for a visual of the Stress Vulnerability Model proposed by Joseph Zubin and Bonnie Spring in 1977).
This is why we need to know
a) how big our bucket is; and
b) how we can manage our buckets
… a little self-loving and awareness is everything after all! (yes, you can have that inuendo for free!).
So, to our buckets…
In the Stress Bucket Model the level of vulnerability a person carries is represented by a bucket into which every day stresses flow. The lower a person’s vulnerability to stress, the bigger their bucket.
The size of bucket is dependent on our vulnerability level. The more difficult issues there are, the smaller the bucket so it will overflow more quickly than someone with a larger bucket. When the bucket overflows, is when difficulties develop.
How do we stop our bucket overflowing?
Through helpful coping methods, such as rest, nutrition, recovery, positivity and asking for help. These helpful coping mechanisms function as a tap to let stress out of your bucket.
Unhelpful coping methods, such as working long hours, self-medicating with drugs and alcohol, lack of sleep, excess pressure etc can become additional stressors to fill the bucket and block the tap.
You see, we all have stress, but you have control of the tap on your bucket and you can manage the level of stress in your bucket.
Your stress levels will be different to someone else’s because your bucket is a different size.
Your vulnerability level is different to someone else’s because of your personal experiences and how you manage them.
By using the Stress Bucket Model we can use the visual to help us manage our stress.
So, get investigating your bucket and see how big it is… and feel free to report back!
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